Support Kaylee

David,

Most people dealing with this issue have to be as tight lipped as Krista has been ordered to be. This issue is the most volatile issue among the masses b/c our society and most others are in such a deep denial about the actual safety of children. We have a false sense of safety that we are not willing to believe otherwise even those in these types of cases the masses think well there is nothing I can do the advocacy organizations like leadership council, Justice For Children, Child Help and such are there for that purpose and most people don’t realize there is little they can do for a parent either. In a few cases they add some weight but nothing where they go in and solve a problem but they do collect alot of money touting that they are helping children but in actuality they do little if anything. There is only one way to stop this problem of incest and sexual abuse of children SHINE THE LIGHT. We need cameras in court rooms in CPS interviews and prosecutors interviews and everyone needs to stop hiding but it can not be the parents that come out or they are severely punished as krista was put in jail when she returned from Dr Phil show of course they used another excuse why but the fact is they were punishing her for “outing” them and as scared as Krista is to tell we all are. I am in the very very lucky 5% that gets supervised visitation on no actual evidence but lie detector and evaluations that is what we need to push to have as evidence in these cases. Incest occurs under the blankets not easily proven and rarely leaves physical evidence so therefore the only choice is lie detectors and psychosexual evals and that is what women being called liars need to insist on. I can not and will not put my case in jeopardy by talking about it on a forum such as this and most others if they are smart wont either. What is needed is to provide good support in ways that are not trackable who people are and if case details get out then it is easy to figure out who they are and a person who has written on this board had it used against her in court.

Unfortunately Incest is kept hidden by CPS, Family courts, prosecutors by using intimidation on the already victimized victims and it is when we start trying to find ways to SHINE THE LIGHT THE DARKNESS CAN’T EXIST. We have to do that by not putting ourselves in jeopardy but by finding ways to shine it and protective parents some direction that will be useful to their case such as offer to take a lie detector if he will, offer to take an eval if he will. Offer to pay for it if you can or at least your half.

the other sad part is that most of the people able to benefit from this advice are running scared and are not here but are in shelters and just trying to survive while they hide or fight from behind the bushes where they feel safe. Very few have access to internet when they are being attacked and trying to feed their children when these pedofile fathers or step fathers are finding ways to keep them down by denying their responsibilties and attacking in all ways to cripple their victims and survival can take all of your energy to keep afloat. Many give up and turn their children over to their abusers b/c they have no choice and don’t know where or how to fight. I know of a woman who caught her husband making her 3 y/o give him oral sex and she didn’t handle it exactly the way CPS or law enforcement thought she should so therefore she is a liar and now he gets this same girl 3 y/o every other weekend and the judge will only punish the mother if she brings up abuse this is what we need to do give strength and validation to the women fighting this and tools that they can beat this oppressive system in keeping incest hidden. Helping them to discern when and where to speak up and what to not focus on.

But ultimately I trusted the Lord in my case and prayed daily for guidance while I literally shook from fear of being in the company of evil.

May the Lord find ways to guide those in harms way may he give comfort and direction to all those in this absolutely dreadful position.

OMG I just want you to know that Penny does have a story, but is not one that can be shared. She really knows what she is talking about and has great advice. She has climbed over mountains to help Kaylee and met me in Washington D.C at her own expense to help me present Kaylee’s Law. She has become a very good friend and I am very happy for all the work she has done. I want her to post all that she wants because she has already helped MANY! Thanks again Penny for all your hard work.

omg your sarcasm is unneccessary and aimedat the wrong people.

Why are you here anyways? Penny even stated what she was refering to and no one cannotgo public.

Fortunately there are many decent cps workers and judges but still far too many who are corrupt and the child is not important to them.

Like Penny I am a child advocate and I have built up 5 websites for abused children and protective parents. i don’t claim to be God but I am working toward doing something.

For those who simply complain or criticize others, to not be part of the solution is indeed to be part of the problem.

Penny don’t let the crude comment get to you. We bought now the amount of work, sweat, terars and money we put into helping not only the kids we love but other kids as well.

I am so glad kaylee is fine now.
I myself am working really hard (i work on my own, from my home out, not involved with any goverment service) to find child predators, hosters of child porn websites, predators on chats,…. And get them arrested or those sites suspended. Kind of like Chris Hansen on dateline nbc.
I am glad that Kaylee is now safe from that disgusting father of her.
I wish the best to Kaylee and the family!

@Penny
Ok, sure! But what is her contact info?
Feel free to mail me contact info to Maijin_@msn.com
(to administrator, feel free to publish this email.)

OMG

Sorry to pile on, but I have to say two things:

1. What Penny has done has been very helpful so far, and she has been a staunch allie of Kaylee’s;

2. Her personal beliefs are her business; what gives you the right to criticize her faith and/or share that faith with others? I know for a fact that Bonii’s faith has helped to sustain her through this…and other…ordeals. I may not be a particularly religious person myself, but I would never question/criticize others for their beliefs (unless, of course, those beliefs brought direct physical harm to others).

These criticisms of Penny are blatantly wrong and unfair.