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Sep
Up Date
Hi, everyone thank you for all your support. I am so sorry I can not post everything going on, but I really, really wish I could. I can tell you that Jeremy was arrested a few weeks ago and Danielle told us that he was crying in the back of the police car, he was saying he was scared of jail. I can’t say much more but all of you are going to be shocked! Oh, and to answer some of your questions we do not know if we will be on another Dr.Phil show but we will have an up-date show with some net work. We are working with some different net works and will pick the one that will pay for our lobbiest in Washington that is goining to help us pass Kaylee’s Law. I will tell you all about it later. Thanks Bonii
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Great to hear that Jeremy was arrested! This would be a matter of public record so why can’t you share what the charges were?
Hi Jane There is some information that I can not post, but if you find it out on your own and not from me you can post it, I can’t explain why yet, but if you would like you can call the sheriff department and see if they will tell you. I don’t believe they will. I also can’t tell you because of a bigger reason that you will understand later. Just know that very very soon I will be able to tell you all. Believe me it is harder for me to keep this to myself than it is for you not to know, but I am doing it for a very important reason that you will understand later. Trust me!
Glad to hear Jeremy was arested. He won’t be able to hurt his daughter from his jail cell.
So happy to hear the news. You all have worked so hard and still have a
long road ahead of you. God bless you all and hugs to sweet Kaylee.
I’m glad that Kaylee is safe and that there’s been progress. Please keep us posted when you can. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
I am happy to hear that he has been taken away. That is a GREAT thing, but as a victim and a survivor myself it is a long healing process that I don’t think will ever end. I have been praying for Kaylee and your family since the news first broke last year. He can not hurt her anymore physically, but she will hurt mentaly for a long time. I wish I could hug her and tell her everything will be ok. I myself have been trying to find ways to help the fight against sex offenders. There isn’t a day that goes by we don’t see something on the news and it breaks my heart. I would love to be able to help in your fight. I am in Michigan the Metro Detroit area and would do anything I can to help in this process. If you need petitions or whatever, please feel free to contact me via e-mail. I will continue to pray. God is with you.
Gee, I wonder why Jeremy was crying as he was taken to jail. I understand that alleged child molesters are treated very well by their fellow inmates, and that all consideration and care is given to alleged molesters.
However, I’m reasonably confident that he will get his in the end. Pun intended.
Maybe he should change his name to “Dick”, because this…along with his last name…is what his fellow inmates are going to turn him into.
I’ll take donations of vaseline and Prep-H at your convienence.
Robert
I would LOVE to donate to that vaseline fund but no Prep H I want him to feel everything!!!!
boy do I wish Icould be a fly on the wall God forgive me
I do hope that Judge Mayfield and Barbara Wagner will be held accountable for the last few years that Kaylee had to suffer while these women put their head in the sand knowing the evidence these women should not be practicing any type of law they are victimizing children themselves. I hope they pay in hell for it too! God forgive me
why won’t dr Phil pay for the lobbist?
seems he and Robin made enough on exploiting Kaylees suffering
why can’t Robin give up a massage for children she claims to care about
what phonies those two are boy the American public should boycott dr Phil and Robin for not caring about Kaylees law afterall he made alot of money seems there were double the commercials on Kaylees shows than others
I think America is starting so see what a creep Dr Phil and Robin are revealing themselve to be
I agree Dr Phil should put his money to some good work instaed of just boosting his own ratings.
Bonii, Jeremy was arrested but is he in jail? There is of cpourse a difference between arrest and conviction. Has there been a grand jury yet.
It was said that arrest are public knowledge and that is not always so. When an arrest involves a minor particularly arrest of a parent because of a crime against his child than it is not public knowledge.
What is the name of the local newspaper in that area? If someone gets arrested in MA there name is in the police blog in their community newspaper and a description of what they were charged with. It would be all over the papers escpecially if it were for rape of a child.
Berrien Springs, Michigan has a paper called Herald Palladium.
Bonii, We are of course anxious to hear all but we will be patient. I understand that something have to remain private particularly in cases like this. We certainly do not want anything to jeopardize the case such as Jeremy claiming he can’t get a fair trial etc.
Tell us when you can.
Best of luck
AMEN, You Ladies are making progress. Your doing great. Let us know when you can and until then, we will be praying and thinking about you all. AMEN again it’s about time we hear good news.
Ladies remember when Kaylee’s law goes to Congress do your part and call everyone you can to press for it’s passage.
I better let everyone know that Jeremy was not arrested for what he has done to Kaylee but for what he has done to someone else. He will be arrested for what he did to Kaylee soon. We are working on that daily. Because of what he did to the other person is why his visitation has stopped with Kaylee. I will not stop or sleep until not only Jeremy is arrested for Kaylee but a few others that actually helped him get away with it. Danielle said that I can also let you know that she is divorcing Jeremy. As soon as I am able to give you details of his arrest I will.
Thanks Bonnie. Was the someone else a child or an adult? If any adult, was it family? That may leave a clue without telling us.
Hi Elka. It does involve Daniell and Jeremy’s baby, but everything I post Krista is held accountable for, which is a voilation of my civil rights. Which CPS will pay for later. Danielle has come over to Krista’s house many times to give us more info and She said she will never leave the baby alone with Jeremy again. She is getting things together so she can move out. Jeremy is out of jail right now but it will not be long before he is back in. I am building a very nice case and have documented everything from day one. I have some really good attorneys from Chicago that are working on a great case for us. I wil keep you up dated with what I can.
Oh my gosh! I guess love is blind, but I just wish Danielle would have listened to everyone and not allowed her baby near him. I know you can’t tell us. But now I am so curious if he molested the baby, or if he was violent with the baby. Not that molesting isn’t violent, but I mean in a different way. Well, thank you for letting us know. Thank God that this is coming to a head. And I hope that this was something that he was caught enough to ensure that the courts will now know the truth about him. I always believed you and Krista, without a second thought when I watched the show. Please keep us updated as you can. I am so glad that you were able to tell us this much.
I hope Danielle actually sticks to her guns this time. She needs to.
By the way, did you see the guy that is all over TV that allegedly molested a little girl named Madison in Nevada, that they had a tape of the disgusting acts? I told my husband the guy looks just like Jeremy. It made me think of Kaylee.
Lots of luck.
Elka
hello all, I am so glad to hear things are coming to an end. I have not been to this site in a while and it is a shame that it has taken this long. Thanks for getting kaylee the help she needs. Your goods deeds will not go unseen. Jeremy deserves everything he gets in the slammer sick weirdo. Keep us posted KUDOS to you and krista for the help you have done…. Lots of Luck Tara
For all who have supported Bonii and Kaylee through everything, I’m sure your support was and is invaluable.
However, please remember Bonii is not done even after Jeremy is in prison. I am not refering to the ongoing support and love etc for which she and Krista will give to Kaylee but the work she will continue to do for abused children.
Yes, Bonii is working on trying to help other children too. One thing when you try to protect a child, you realize that help is just not there and you have to go after it. it is a long battle and We all need to help each other to overcome the hurdled involved including men’s rights groups, corrupt judges, some corrupt CPS workers, GALs who simply tell the judge what the judges want to hear, bad laws and prejudice. often in sexual abuse, there is no real physical evidence–evidence that can’t be explained away.
For any mother who is trying to protect her child and want support please email Bonii or myself at defendchildren@yahoo.com for a private website you can apply to join.
As grotesque as Jeremy is, he is not the only one. 25% of girls are molested and 90% by people known to them. While it is a very smal fraction of a percent of mother who report the child’s father for molesting the child, 70% of those cases end with the fathers getting unsupervised visitation and or custody. many mothers lose the custody completely. It is a travesty of justice and needs good people to fight it for it to stop.
Please all abused children need support.
I want Boni, Krista, and Kaylee to know I am praying for them everyday and I am so glad to hear this nightmare is finally almost over. I do not watch dr Phil regularly but when I say your shows I followed them closely. I them have checked in with your website every few weeks to follow Kaylee. I would like to hear more about Kaylees law and look forward to the news show that is willing to pay for the lobbiest. It is upsetting to me that the Dr. Phil show has not shown all of you more supprt after he boosted his ratings. My prayers and thought are with you and I await the whole story,
Sorry, but I hope Danielle is prosecuted as well. She knew all along what Jereremy is capable of. Love may be blind, however, that excuse does not sit well with me when there are two children involved.
I agree very much with the statement made by Trisha Tsongas. I am still praying that this nightmare will be over soon, and Kaylee can try to go on with her life. I have been following your story since day 1 when you were picketing the Niles Courthouse. I will not stop until I know (he) is in prison for a very long time. I also pray for (their) baby because when all this started (she) (you know who I’m talking about) should of left (him) and she didn’t. I don’t live to far from where all this is happening, I want him out of our community ASAP. Ladies (Krista & Bonii) Keep up the great work, you both are very strong ladies and your doing awesome. Little Kaylee we love you and we pray for you everyday, you have a very strong grandma and a very strong mom. I know they take good care of you, and they love you so so much. They are 2 awesome women. Keep fighting, have faith, and we will keep praying. Prayer is a powerful thing. Always remember that.
I am glad to hear that things seem to be moving in a positive direction. I understand how important it is for this all to be low key. I am a survivor myself and pray hard for Kaylee, Bonnii, and Krista everyday. Also for Danielle and the new baby. hope to hear the awesome news soon. Keep up your hard work Bonii. I know it gets tiring and sometimes VERY frustrating but it’s all for such a good cause!!!!
Hi Bonnie,
Thanks for your response. Can you tell us at all if what he allegedly did to the baby, was it of sexual nature, physical abuse, or neglect? I don’t know what else you can say, but of course, we are all curious. I hope he will not longer have to be in Kaylee’s life.
Did Jeremy and Danielle have a boy or a girl?
Keep up the good fight!
in response to penny. if it wasn’t for dr.phil you would’t even know about kaylee.
so what it wasn’t dr phil that saved kaylee so it didn’t matter if I knew about the case or not. Dr Phil did not do what he said he would do for Kaylee except profit from her pain. He is a hypocrit and could have helped kaylee and kaylees law to protect other children but he is too busy getting ratings all it would take is a phone call for him but he can’t even do that. to those much is given have a responsibility especially since he had double the commericals and made more on Kaylee pain and suffering and pretend to have done her good. he did not do the case any good in fact b/c of the show krista was put in jail for embarrassing cps on tv. Yes dr phil profited and kaylee, krista and bonii suffered
that was a dumb comment so what if I knew it is about kaylee being exploited for money it is that simple you can pretend any way you want but the truth is the truth is the truth and someday he will answer for it
Tammy, You don’t know if penny would have know about kaylee or not. Children advocates have many resources and many contact so you really are making a statement for which you cannot back.
Dr Phil has done a lot of harm to children and mothers. His behavior was atrocious. He was unfair to all even Jeremy and i don’t care about Jeremy but still did not like the way Dr Phil presented the show.
This site is for the family and their support nothing else. dr phil has his own site and might welcome your support there.
why are you selecting Penny to go after? She posted over 2 weeks ago.
Are you in reality a Jeremy supporter and you dislike Penny because she has supported this family from day one?
Whatever your reason, I am sure no one here cares to read your crap and the rules of this site are this is for support of Bonii, Kaylee and Crista only.
Penny, You are so right. You’d think after this much time anyone not supportive of the family would find some other place to post.
Tess, they had a baby boy.
I agree with Penny and Defend and have this whole time. I think that Dr. Phil could have acted alot different than he did about Kaylee. I believe that he did the show for ratings and not for her safety – because HE DID NOTHING!! That is so sad for Kaylee. Bonii and Krista – GOOD JOB and keep up the good work – I know that this is very hard for your family but you guys have came a long way – keep it up!!! I am praying for your family. I to believe Dr. Phil is a hypacit!!
Kaylee’s law is not based on the Kaylee of this website… google it. It’s based on someone who abused and killed an 18-month old Kaylee in Ohio.
When it is refered to her, it is refering to this Kaylee.
Yes, the other little Kaylee has a Kaylee’s law. Bonii might need to change the name but it will always be Kaylee’s law to her and those working on it.
It will be a law to keep alleged molesters from having unsupervised visitation while a child abuse investigation is going on and to give children a voice in court. it is too lengthy to go into depth here.
Thank you for bringing us about Kaylle from Ohio, May she rest in peace.
I do support this family. I am glad they got jeremy. It broke my heart when i saw this story. I think boni is a very tough woman I can’t imagine being in her shoes, i would probably be in jail for murder if it was my grandchild. I just didn’t think it was right bashing the man who brought this story to us.
dr phil profited of kaylees suffering and told the family he would help and then he didn’t at all. This case was not solved in any way shape or form b/c of Dr Phils show. The only thing he did was profit and exploited this family’s terror in watching one of their smallest members being dragged to hell and raped twice a week. Dr Phil could have helped and said he would and he didn’t. he lured them with saying he would help with money and now not only did Bonii not ask for him to even live up to the help he said he would give but asking for him to help pay the lobbist to come up with a law to save OTHER children NOT EVEN for Kaylee but after all this family has been thru they are trying to help prevent it from happening to others what their little sweet girl had to endure. I think if it is bashing you call it from a man exploiting a little angels suffering then so be it. I call it telling it like it is! Dr Phil is a big phoney he said “I am going to make sure Kaylee is safe” he didn’t but he did make sure he put in double the commercials than any other show he had and all the companies the paid we shoudl boycott or get them to help pay the lobbist b/c they all profited from kaylees suffering. The lobbyist is not some nobody he was sent by the American League of Lobbyists. So dr phil BS promises and the companies that profited off Kaylees pain may not pay here on earth but surely they will be held accountable when they face their God
not bashing telling it like it is without policitically correct bs hiding the truth just as incest is usually hidden and everyone goes along and pretends it is not happening and telling victims to just pretend it isn’thappening.
Incest is happening every where and Dr Phil knows it and he could have helped but chose instead to get a massage
You are so right Penny.
For anyone who will not do all they can to demand laws are made and are enforced to protect children from pedophile fathers==just think about it.
The courts are granting pedophile fathers unsupervised visitation and custody, sometime even sole custody. while the mother who has tried to protect her child is vilified and kept from the child because she believes her child.
That means a pedophile can go anywhere a child goes–including your child’s scholls, your child’s activities and he can even be your child’s coach.
All because the pervert is walking free. He can take pictures of the children at play==afterall the court gives him the authority to do as he wants.
Next time you go to a child’s game or dance recital–look around most likely there is a pervert in your presence. don’t think because a mother lost custody that it mean that father is a good father. don’t think because the father is remarried that he is a good and decent man.
Pedophiles have formed many groups they call father’s rights groups. They have banned togather when are women going to banned together against pedophiles?
We who fight for the children can’t do it alone but we will go to the grave fighting with or without support from others. We beg for help but the lack of it will not keep us from trying.
God bless the children
I just want you all to know that just because a woman doesn’t have custody of her child doesn’t mean that the father that does is a child molester. My husband has custody of his daughter do to the fact that the mother is an alcoholic and can’t make a good choice. In fact she is remarried with two more children and doesn’t even think she should pay child support. I guess my point is there are a lot of good fathers out there. In fact there are just as many good fathers as there are mothers. I am a victim myslef, so believe me I am not going to make excuses for the sick sob’s.
Trina, No one has said or implied anything about custodials father all being molesters. However, many custoduial fathers are and many custodial fathers make claims about mothers which are not tru.
Maybe your husband is ok but maybe the father standing next to youat a sporting event is not.
You sound very typical of second wives==have to defend their husbands and you probably don’t know the whole of it. You claim she’s an alcoholic and can’t make a good choice. Maybe so and maybe not. She has remarried and has 2 other children so she is most likely making decision for them.
You say she doesn’t even think she should pay child support. What was that put in there for, so people reading would think what a bad mother she is. Fact you do not know what she thinks.
What you state as fact @@@@@@@@@@@@ In fact there are just as many good fathers as there are mothers@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ is simply your opinion and I disagree.
Ask 100 kids who is the better parent–I seriously doubt if the response will favor men. Ask 100 adults who was the petter parent and I doubt if the fathers will win out.
As I have stated many times, most fathers are good people and good fathers but not all and I have never claimed all mothers are good either.
To add in your statement that @@@@you were molested@@@ was simply done to add validity to what you state. I think you simply sound like a bitter second wife who has blinders on where her man is concerned. Your souse might be a good dad. Let’s see if you get divorced and have a child he fights for because most of the time the men who seek custody get it.
I stand firm on all my posts and I stand for the children. When you wish to make statements do yourself a favor and put them where they belong. This site is not a debate about which parent is better. It is for supporting an abused child, and all abused children.
It is very much to bring notice and support for Kaylee’s law regardless if it is called Kaylee’s law or a law to protect children against parental sexual abuse. I brought out the fact that people need to be aware that not fighting for abused children jeopardizes their own children.
No way is this site about you or your husband.
you are right defend this site is for the supporting of Kaylee’s family whose custodial father was fighting for custody as many sexual abusers do when they are caught and tell their new wives their exwives are alcholics, drug addicts or crazy whatever and see I know this b/c I was once a second wife and was as self righteous as this trina is.
the facts are that most sexual abuse is by the father but is unreported and has been for many years.
the problem with women who think they know their husbands may find out different down the line
also a good step mother would be compassionate towards an alcholic and if not that at least be appropriate and not bash the mother my God it isn’t like she sexually abused her daughter it sounds like the father took custody from her and she is in pain if she is drinking. see stories can be anyway we choose to present them. Second wives love to bash first wives and mothers b/c they think it makes them look better but it doesn’t it makes them look worse than the first wife and mother.
Sexual abuse by a father is the most destructive thing a man can do to his children it is like stealing their soul and surely earns him a pass to hell and a long time burning in purgatory but surely will not be purified since itis the devil he is following. May any person who advocates for a father like Jeremy spend many years in hell and may the Lord bring him to his knees and I trust THE LORD WILL SURELY BRING HIM TO HIS KNEES.
Wow! defend you claim this site should be used for Kaylee but I check it daily to see if she had been taken away from that monster and daily you have something to debate about. You and Penny do nothing but bash what people say. IT is O.K to leave you opion about everything and everybody but when someone else wants to you are typing away to bash them. Seems like you need some help of some sort…did a man do you wrong.
There are good dads and moms and well as bad dads and bad moms. Who are you to claim this site as yours and to run people off that come to this site to support Kaylee and her family or to talk about how things have affected thier lives. I never post anything on here but are on here daily. I sent money to help out but I am sure you will have something to say. Maybe you and Penny need to just call each other on the phone to debate. YOU are not always right. You seems like you are such a bitter person with nothing else to do but comment on what everyone says and then your follower Penny had to agree. This websit is to support Kaylee…your words I am using..but you use it toreply so negative to everyone.
Maybe you should read what people have to say and move on. That is what I do. I am only looking to see if Boni has posted something and have to skim through all of you and Pennys remarks. My gosh look back through the replys and see for your selfs.
To all I did not leave that comment to be a second wife bashing the first one, but to simply say that there are just as many bad mothers as there are bad fathers, and I am sorry you took it that way. For your information I pray for Kaylee every night. I know what it is like to be put in harms way and grow up having to deal with the healing process and it is nevering ending. I am not going to be one of those people that say a mother or a father is the better parent. Because like both of you said that is not what this site is about. Everyone is entitled to have an opion and I am not bashing you for having one, so in return you should give me the same respect. I will say a pray for each of you as well. To Bonii I didn’t mean any disrespect in my comment before. I would do anything I could to help in your fight to get the law changed. Keep up your hard work. It will pay off.
Trina,
My comments were soley made to Penny and Defend who do nothing but analize what everyone says and puts some mean comments about it. You are intitled to your own oppion as I am mine. I too check this site to see updates on Kaylee and have to go through thier comments about how they seem to know everything. The best thing for a child is BOTH parents so I too agree with you that any parent could be bad but in this case it seems to be the father. Glad to hear you are still checking this site out because the other two seem to scare people off. You would think they would want as much supporters for Kaylee as possible. I too will pray for both of them so that the hate they have for whatever reason towards men resides.
Bonii would love an update to just see if Kaylee is doing fine.
I agree there are good mothers and good fathers but Kaylee’s father isn’t one and my only point is you never really know if someone is a child molestor. They frequently tell their second wives that the ex is an alcholic or whatever. They can even make things appear one way when they are not. Lots of men are real manipulative in making their exs look bad and if they are talking against thier children’s mothers it is a very bad sign.
Sometimes first wives leave thier children with their fathers b/c they are better off but I personally think it is mothers that children need most and only when a mother is completely unavailable or dangerous to a child should she be noncustodial mother. But good fathers are as good as gold and if you have one you are lucky but most good fathers do whatever they can to support a mother for his children’s sake and if they are talking against their child’s mother I would not trust them one bit. And to me it goes double if a stepmother is saying one bad word about her stepchild’s mother.
A mother who is an alcholic has minimal coping skills or she wouldn’t be drinking and could use some compassion. Unfortunately for mothers any weakness is magnified. Mothers have to be perfect inour society or they are judged as a bad mothers.
As a former second wife I realize where I will never be again and that is in judging a former wife. I am very suspicious of a man who has custody at this point, the majority are not child molestors but just b/c they have custody doesn’t mean they are a good father either.
Jen,
if someone is run off……. they choose to do
no one can run anyone off that is their choice
Lots of men do women wrong and lots of women do men wrong or the divorce rate wouldn’t be 50% with second marriages at 75%
To be protective of children once learning how common incest is is just good common sense otherwise it is denial as most society is in. Incest is rampant like there is an alcoholic in every family there is a molestor in everyone’s too but people deny it more often out of their own shame instead of the shame on the molestor. IT is time we stop taking the predators shame andput it where it belongs on the molestor himself
Jen,
Why don’t you get your facts straight and learn to properly read. First off, you might come here every day but I don’t andI don’t know if Penny comes here every day or not but I don’t see where she posts every day.
You claim to come here everyday to check to see if Kaylee has been taken away from Jeremy. Supposedly you are a supporter for Kaylee and her family. Yet, you state you never post==lots of support you’ve shown.
If you come here daily for the sole purpose of seeing if Kaylee was taken away from that monster than why are you still here. You say you are only interesting in Bonii’s posts and that is fine. On Sept 11, 2007 she posted that Kaylee was no longer having to go with Jeremy. This is Oct 17, 2007. A long time since Jeremy has Kaylee.
I have never met Penny but I can tell a fellow child advicate when I read what one posts. I know that Penny is a caring person and a true advocate for the children.
I posted a very logical post to help others to realize the full depth and terror of pedophila and that it is not simply the registered sex offenders we need to beware of. iIt was Trina who commented on my post and if anyone washed bashed, it was me by her. . I would overlook it except it does negatively impact on the message I have stated.
I understand Trina probably was just trying to make a point that not all custodial fathers are bad-however, I never said that and never implied it. This site is not a debate about motherhood and fatherhood. It is about Kaylee and the children like her abused by pedophile fathers and the courts failure to protect them. It is not about bad mothers vs bad fathers but pedophile and sexually abusive parents.
“Yet, you state you never post==lots of support you’ve shown.”
I disagree with you on the The commentyou made about the comment thing. you don’t have to post to support kaylee at all.Godbless
I have also never posted on here before but do check up to see how kaylee is.
Defend I have noticed also how much you analize and criticize others who leave comments it’s like you have to respond to every single comment that is put up on here.We are all supposed to support kaylee..Why not just do that and stop the naming calling hmm?? Calling that one person a bitter house wife…. i know everyone has an opinon but I think you just take it a little too far.I know you will nick pick at my post so go ahead but God bless kaylee.
I totally agree with Jen , more on the point of defend than Penny. I have not posted for quit some time, but I do check almost everyday to get an update on Kaylee. If someone posts anything defend does not agree with she will be sure to let you know and if you do not see eye to eye with HER, and her views, then you need to go elsewhere… Defend , not everyone is has the knowledge of the laws as you seem to; however, this site is for everyone to comment on regardless if you agree with them or not.
Penny, I think your heart is in the right place and you want nothing but the best for Kaylee and other children in this position.
Bonii, Best of luck to you and hugs to sweet Kaylee
Hi Im writing to you from Denmark, I have watched the Dr Phill show, with great sadness and anger, and thank god, that Jeremy is in jail. Hail to you all.
Was I correct in seeing on the show that the unborn child of Jeremy’s Partner was not his? if this is correct the girl needs to get the hell away and NOW!
The only reason he is scared to go to jail, is that he knows he will not be treated with respect from inmates, you know what I mean. He will get whats coming to him, make no mistake.
God bless you Kaylee, Christa, and Bonii we are all praying for you here in Denmark
Love Helen
Didnt mean to start such a reaction but it seems like most people agree. I always wondered if other people felt like that. I am aware that Kaylee is not seeing her father and should have put more that I am waiting for the news that she no longer has to go visit becasue I am sure it is just temporary right now, and that he is in jail. Sorry Defend, but seems like others see where I am coming from and I wanst tyring to debate issues, but you always have something (so negative) to say unless it is coming form Penny. Perfect example is how you reacted to my post. The more people praying and supporting Kaylee the better. Eveyone has their own opions which we all have the right to.
Relax and just take in peoples issues and lets all keep praying for Kaylee and her family.
Love to Kaylee and her family!
I am so glad Kaylee is safe.
Hi. Im from Denmark so Im sorry if my english is a bit rusty. I have followed this case since it was on dr phil. Would just like to ay that there are people in Denmark thinking about Kaylee and that we pray for her. Hope that you will succed in keeping Kaylee safe.
Jen,
I agree with you. The point is for everyone to have a place to voice how they are feeling regarding these tragic things going on in the world. I understand that there are a lot of men that are pedophiles out there, but there are woman pedophiles out there too. Not only that it isn’t just fathers that are pedophiles it is men in general. I also want to state that I am very compasionate when it comes to this issue. In fact this perticular case is what has given me the will power to go back to school and pursue my dream of being a crime victims advocate for child that are victims of sexual abuse. Bottom Line the laws need to be changed to save child from predators be it male or female.
Actually Trina women pedofiles are not common in fact they are rare but women who allow their husbands or boyfriends to sexually abuse their children are just narcisistic individuals with little regard for thier children’s needs. That being said it was only after the 80s that it was no longer acceptable to blame the victim child as seductive but now it is more “fashionable” to blame the mother in some way. As is happening with the video of the little girl supposedly found in the desert. Many believe the mother knows consciously or unconsciously and is blamed for missing the cues or ‘forgetting’ the accidental disclosure which is the most common way for incest to surface but then if a mother reports she is vilified. So as our society is the mother is blamed and is damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t. Most daughters blame the mother when they grow up b/c it is mothers who are responsible for emotional construction of the family whether divorced or not and the father is responsible to the stuctural construction of the family. But studies are showing it is more likely that the mother is in the exact same denial that the rest of our society is in.
However the statistics are staggering at how common biological fathers are sexually molesting or exploiting thier daughters and sons. In indepth studies biological fathers are most likely to sexually abuse but are not reported b/c of the mixed feelings of the victim since it is their father even when there is violence. According to research 80% of sexual abuse is incestuous abuse from a parent and 75% of those incidents are forgotten at some point in time simply for the personality to survive it must suppress b/c of the betrayal trauma.
When our society integrates these studies and learns this, the rare incest accusations, less than 2%, during divorce that are reported will be handled with the child’s best interest not the fathers rights to his biological material.
Biological father incest is more common than we want to believe as is alcholism. And most molestors choose women who were previously sexually abused and they also choose weak women that are alcholic or drug addicts or have a mental illness or are working alot and are not available.
Women pedofiles are very rare factually
Hmm allowing your child to get raped. Sounds like Danielle to me. She will never leave her baby alone with Jeremey? If I remember correctly Danielle said she would never leave Kaylee alone with him and then on national television Danielle states that she only leave Kaylee alone with Jeremey on occasion when she goes to the store. Sorry, BUT I STILL cant STAND DAnielle. Is she back with Jeremey yet?
Trish, my sentiments exactly. Danielle is out for Danielle only–no regards for anyone–at least that is the way it seems.